I met Charlotte Mason three years ago when I discovered her Original Homeschooling Series . Her words have transformed my parenting approach and have ultimately shaped me almost as much as God's Word. I esteem her writings so because they are rooted in Scripture and I believe her teachings are simply the application of God's wisdom when it comes to parenting, character development and education. That's why, throughout the day, I often find myself asking, "What would Charlotte do?!"
Here are some relevant ways her instruction has influenced our lifestyle.
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The first time we visited "Conquered Hill Meadow" was about three years ago when Colin was about five and Nene was three years old. We went there because of Charlotte Mason. Yes, she spoke to me! She told me to stop taking my children to those indoor toddler gyms where the toys are never cleaned and cooties are shared with other snotty-nosed children (mine included). She told me to stop wasting my time teaching a preschool science curriculum and get my kids outdoors. "Take the kids outside, don't just send them outside. If you go out with them they will want to stay outside and there won't be any of this inside outside traffic with doors slamming and lost interest. Since you live in the city, you're going to have to drive to a park. When you're there, find one spot, hang out and stay for a long time so the children have ample time to explore God's creation. Mom, sit yourself on a blanket, don't worry, the cleaning will be home when you get back. In the meantime, find something you can enjoy (knitting perhaps!) but keep a watchful eye on your kiddos.
So I took her advice. It was our first official CM outside day. It was a memorable day. Being a novice at this outside time, I of course had brought along a change of clothes, a lunch bag, blanket, two huge art portfolio cases for nature journaling and about five (I kid you not) nature resource guides. I was a tad over zealous, don't you think? And did I mention I was about seven months pregnant!? I made myself comfortable on the blanket as the kids raided the bags first, no they didn't go running off and skipping through the grass field like Laura Ingalls as I had hoped for. No, instead, the books had been spread far and wide, markers were unpackaged and misplaced and the blanket was soiled from food and shoeprints!
I remember feeling overwhelmed rather than tranquil as CM had promised. On top of that, I noticed the tall grass surrounding us was covered in spit! So with great disappointment, I quickly started packing our things telling the kids to hurry up as I made comments of incredulity that someone would be so disgusting. "But Mom", Colin said "they're spit bugs." We looked a little more deeply at the field we were in the middle of and every single stalk was covered with spit. Colin was so right! There's no way someone could spit an acre! Oh, we all were so delighted with Colin's ingenious discovery (we can thank Dr. Seuss' Insect book, yes he was paying attention and I wasn't!) and yes we touched the spit, found the nymphs hidden in the moist center and watched them spring away.
So I spread out my blanket again and sat down. Not too long later, a doe and two older fawns approached from the other side of the hill . "Let's be still and quiet while we draw the deer in our nature journals", I suggested. But once the children caught sight of them and ran towards them, we never saw them again that day. But now my kids are on the other side of the hill, out of my sight! Oh great, here goes a pregnant woman chasing two kids over a hill! Fortunately, they returned quickly and we just lingered there at the far end of the field while Nene and I enjoyed some wild foxgloves (I think Nene really thought the flower were worn by foxes, so darling!). Colin on the other hand, was not interested in the wildflowers. His attention had turned to the steeper portion of the hill, with its inviting "trail" and exposed roots. He climbed and slipped. He tried another route and slipped. He grabbed onto grass and slipped. My first inclination was to worry of a mishap since I was the kind of Mommy who never sat on a park bench while the kids were on the playground, I would chase after them with arms ready to catch them convinced they were going to get hurt. But Charlotte spoke again to me,
Climbing is an amusement not much in favour with mothers; torn garments, bleeding knees,and boot-toes rubbed into holes, to say nothing of more serious risks, make a strong case against this form of delight. But, truly, the exercise is so admirable––the body being thrown into endless graceful postures which bring every muscle into play,––and the training in pluck, daring, and resource so invaluable that it is a pity trees and cliffs and walls should be forbidden even to little girls. The mother may do a good deal to avert serious mishaps by accustoming the younger children to small feats of leaping and climbing, so that they learn, at the same time, courage and caution from their own experiences, and are less likely to follow the lead of too-daring playmates. Later, the mother had best make up her mind to share the feelings of the hen that hatched a brood of ducklings, remembering that a little scream and sudden 'Come down instantly!' 'Tommy, you'll break your neck!' gives the child a nervous shock, and is likely to cause the fall it was meant to hinder by startling Tommy out of all presence of mind. ~ Charlotte Mason .vol 1 pg 83-84
So I stood at the bottom of the hill encouraging Colin; and, because CM encouraged me not to interfere, I got to see my boy work hard with such determination and focus. After about twenty to thirty minutes, he still had not succeeded and after exerting all his energy, he finally gave up. He was a tired boy but declared, "Mommy, can I try later? Can we come back tomorrow?"
We returned to the meadow the following day. And Colin went straight for the hill. Before I could unpack my smaller bag (lesson learned) and spread out my blanket I heard a yell from the top of the hill, "Mommy, I climbed the hill!"
"Colin, I'm so proud! You came, You saw, You conquered that hill!"
Nene wasn't so happy that year, she was unable to "conquer" the hill. She had her day though, on the following year, when she was only four years old, she got to "Conquer the Hill". We returned to "Conquered Hill Meadow late last week like we occassionally do. This time, Nene had a little slip and actually got her foot stuck in the roots on the left side of the hill. I had to climb up there myself to rescue her. As you can probably imagine, she was very disappointed and angry with that hill. Who does that hill think he is? She "conquered" it long ago and shouldn't have to put up with these accidents. "Mommy, I never want to come back here again!"
"Oh, yeah?"
Just look at the photos we took of our visit the following day. Who's that climbing first?



"I'm still The Queen of the Hill!"


"Let's do it again!" And again and again and again!

Colin's Conquering Pose!

I'm thinking we need to find a bigger, steeper hill!